Issue #374 – Tuesday, May 30th, 2023
By Kim Eggstaff
“In order to change, people need to become aware of their sensations and the way that their bodies interact with the world around them. Physical self-awareness is the first step in releasing the tyranny of the past.”
-Bessel van der Kolk
Who knew the secret to life's toughest questions would come from a book I almost used to squish a spider?
Bessel van der Kolk, in his gem "The Body Keeps the Score," introduced me to somatic therapies, a concept suggesting our bodies hold onto memories and emotions. Intrigued by the notion that addressing the mind-body connection could bring about some needed healing in my life, I delved into somatic or “body-awareness” therapies.
The first practice I set about to try was somatic breathing.
Gasping for Air: My Hilarious Journey into Somatic Breathing
Somatic breathing is focused, mindful breathing to help you tune into your body and emotions. Think of it as having a relaxed chat with your body, understanding its feelings and signals, all by just breathing intentionally.
I mean, I’ve been breathing all my life, I thought. How hard could it be?
Imagine me, all set for zen, cross-legged on my living room floor, about to attempt somatic breathing for the first time. My initial deep breaths had me gasping like a goldfish outside its bowl, probably causing my neighbors to wonder what the heck was going on in my apartment to cause such a ruckus.
In my quest for tranquility, I puffed up my belly with each inhale, only to deflate like a faulty accordion on the exhale. As if my melodramatic breathing wasn't spectacle enough, in ambled Charlie, my golden retriever. Misinterpreting my accordion impression as a playtime invite, he leapt onto my inflating belly, turning my controlled exhale into a surprised "oomph!"
So, my inaugural somatic breathing session turned into more of a slapstick comedy than a meditative retreat. But now, every new session comes with a side of chuckles as I remember my eventful first attempt.
The Unforeseen Superpower
Despite a clumsy start, I soon realized that somatic breathing was my passport to the superhero universe. No, I couldn’t suddenly fly or become invisible. But each breath I took seemed to clear the fog in my mind, instilling a sense of calm I hadn't experienced since my last beach vacation, which was...let's just say a long time ago.
And the more I integrated these breathing techniques into my daily routine, the more benefits I found!
Not only was my mind more clear and my stress relieved, but study after study shows that there were other things happening in my body below the surface.
My blood pressure lowered. I was getting more oxygen into my cells and tissues. My heart rate slowed. My arteries became more flexible. I was activating the parasympathetic nervous system and giving a huge boost to immune function, releasing helpful neurochemicals, and setting myself up for better sleep. All just from taking some mindful, intentional breaths!
Now I start every morning with my somatic breathing (and I think Charlie has gotten used to it).
Today, I find myself in a much happier and healthier place, all thanks to the magical power of somatic breathing techniques. My clumsy steps have transformed into a graceful dance with my breath, teaching me the art of resilience. As for humor, it has been my faithful sidekick, reminding me to chuckle at life's little absurdities.
How to Try Somatic Breathing for Yourself
Want to give somatic breathing a whirl? Here's a simple breathing technique that you can do anytime, anywhere that’ll help soothe nerves and improve your mind-body connection:
- Find a spot where you won't be disturbed (lock the pets out!)
- Sit comfortably, close your eyes, and say hi to your body
- Place one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach
- Breathe in slowly through your nose. Feel your stomach rise (it's not just for food, folks!)
- Breathe out through your mouth, and feel your stomach fall (like a deflated balloon)
- Repeat this cycle, and imagine each breath sweeping away the cobwebs in your mind and releasing the physical tension that you are holding in your body
After about ten minutes, check in on your mental and physical state. Has anything changed? Do you feel more in-tune with your body? Are you calm, relaxed, and smiling? The more you do this simple exercise, the better and better you’ll feel.
Through somatic breathing, I've unearthed a treasure trove of tranquility, resilience, and belly laughs. So, let's honor the magical mix of healing and laughter, the best combo since peanut butter and jelly!
Holosync & Somatic Therapy
By the way, if you want an easy way to add a deep & powerful somatic therapy into your daily routine, check out Centerflow Healing Trauma Solution - a new trauma-healing program that uses advanced meditation technologies and coaching to help you heal from trauma.
I’m proud to say that when we were in the idea phase of Centerflow Healing Trauma Solution, it was my personal experience with somatic therapies that prompted us to include a somatic therapy track called Somatic Soother, which is a progressive total body scan meditation that’ll help release pain and tension in the body.
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